Getting to Know Our Members: Yesenia’s Story

For this blog post, we interviewed one of our members (Yesenia M.) to learn a bit about our amazing members! You may remember her friendship story from several months back. Now, find out what Yesenia has to say about her background, her interests, and her other friendships through Interpals!

unnamed-6Tell us a little bit about yourself.

My name is Yesenia M. and I am a Mexican American who calls Los Angeles California home.  I am 20 year old girl who craves adventure and wants to see change in the world.  I am currently a student in the Bachelors of Science Social Work program at my university and I work full time at a delicious Korean restaurant.  My Christian faith has given me new eyes to see and so much love to give.  I come from a very hardworking and loving family.  I have been raised by my incredible mother alongside my brother.  Some interesting things to know about me are that I LOVE diversity.  I love love love different cultures and I enjoy having friends from all over the world (which explains why I’m here).  I am the least pickiest person alive and I will eat absolutely almost everything you give me! I’ve never had a boyfriend ;) .  I am open-minded and willing to try new things.

What are some of your favorite things?

My favorite book at the moment is called “Million Little Ways, A: Uncover the Art You Were Made to Live” by Emily P. Freeman.

My favorite movie that inspired my trip to Costa Rica is “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty” and also inspired my favorite quote “To see the world, things dangerous to come to, to see behind walls, draw closer, to find each other, and to feel. That is the purpose of life.”  ― James Thurber.

Which languages do you speak? Which languages are you anxious to learn?

I am fluent in English and Spanish.  It has been SO helpful to know Spanish but it would be really great to learn Portuguese.  Portuguese and Spanish have some what of the same root so I would love to learn it.  Korean is another language I’d like to learn but I gave up.

What’s on your dream travel location list?

I don’t have “one exact” dream travel location, I have too many.  I would love to be able to travel to meet some of my interpal friends: Brasil, Korea, Northern Ireland, Netherlands.  :)

When did you join Interpals?

I joined interpals in 2010 as I casually found a pen pal website which I was SO eager to find.  It was exactly what I was looking for, because Tumblr was so limited with pen pal posts.

Name a few of your favorite experiences through Interpals.


Yesenia and Claire

This is probably my favorite question to answer.  Last year in May I had the opportunity to fly to Florida to visit my friend Claire (who was at the time working at Disney World as part of her internship placement from her Home university in Northern Ireland).  After 3 years of friendship, skyping, facebook, WhatsApp, our friendship was becoming real.  It was INSANE meeting her and we literally ran to each other as soon as we saw each other from a distance.  Two months later I had the privilege of hosting her in LA and adventuring in LA and SF.  This past month, once again, I had the honor of hosting my German friend Ida in my home in LA.  I learned so much about her and about her culture.  We had so much fun visiting tourist spots in LA and making a short trip to Mexico.  We created beautiful memories that I will forever cherish.

What I most LOVE about this site is that you can meet absolutely anyone from any country.  It connects two distinct people, and as you journey together you begin to find similarities.  Interpals has truly blessed me with forever friendships that I am excited to continue to grow in.

What’s on your bucket list?

My bucket list is to go bungee jumping.  Swim in the Indian Ocean.  Dance to Samba in Brasil.  Swing in Ecuador.  Buy some clogs in Holland.  See a million sunsets in every country I encounter. And continue to have the opportunity to meet interpal friends.

What are some of the most important lessons you have learned through Interpals?

Some important lessons: Friendships are as strong as you make them. Everything requires time and effort.  Friendships only grow as much as you want them to. Many of my friendships from interpals remain strong but many have withered.  Another lesson is to look through the other persons eyes.  We live in a diverse world full of different ideologies and mindsets, and no one will ever be identical to one another.  Its important to be willing to understand the other person and allow others to give you new perspectives in order to understand them.  Life is such a beautiful gift that we could all learn to share.

If you invited all of the friends you’ve met through Interpals over for dinner, what kind of meal would you prepare?

If I invited all of the friends I’ve met through interpals for dinner I would prepare an authentic Mexican dinner.  I would make some of my families delicious home-made corn tortillas .  I would have a ton of different condiments from onion, tomato, celery, carrots, salsa, guacamole to make your own tacos.  There would be a tone of different kinds of agua frescas which is homemade juice: watermelon, melon, and lemon.  I would make my aunt’s famous Mexican cheesecake for dessert.  All you can eat tacos :)

Yesenia and Nicole

Yesenia and Nicole

Do you have any funny stories?

Funniest thing that happened while meeting one of my interpal friends is definitely my encounter with my american friend Nicole whom I met at the airport in Costa Rica.  It was our first time ever meeting and because we arrived on different flights we had to find each other once we got off.  I was looking for the longest until I spotted a blonde-hair blue eye gal standing in the line to get through immigration.  We both jumped and laughed while everyone starred at us in confusion as to why were were acting like 2 year-olds.  As soon as she went past immigration she ran to me and we laughed so hard and kept saying “No. No. No. No way.” We had to calm ourselves down from the overload of excitement and come to our senses.  It felt like the entire airport was starring at us but we were too excited to care.

unnamed-7What do you look for in a friend on Interpals?

I look for genuine people who are willing to be themselves and share with me a piece of their life.  I am so enthralled by this idea of meeting people off interpals.  There is something so beautiful in being able to share every part of you to someone who doesn’t know what your way of life is like.  I also look for people who are willing to be dedicated and consistent in a friendship, because it needs to go both ways.

Is there anything you’d like others to know about you?

I would like people to know about my deepest desire: PEOPLE.  I am so passionate about knowing people, and that is why I am on this site.  Not only do I enjoy meeting people for the first time but I enjoy serving, helping, and giving my time.  This is partially the reason to why I am pursuing a career in Social Work.  I would love to continue making friendships and exploring and adventuring with anyone I can.

If you want to share YOUR friendship story, write to us via our Facebook page!

Tagged with: , , , , , , , ,
Posted in Friendship Stories

Meeting in Indonesia: Eriza and Hannah’s Friendship Story

We always think it’s great when Interpals members make friends with others who live in countries where they want to travel, and then have the opportunity to actually travel there! In today’s blog post, we talk to Eriza and Hannah, who were fortunate to meet when Hannah had a chance to volunteer near Eriza’s hometown. Keep reading to learn more about their fantastic friendship!

IMG_3435Tell us a little bit about each of you.

Eriza: I’m Eriza from Indonesia. As I love music (every kind of musics) and I like snail mailing too. also really love to get to know more about the world and new people. I like learning new languages, eventhough it’s just a basic hello, how are you, thanks and the other basic sentences. I like talking with people especially speaking English, beside I’ll know some people because of English. I can also improve my English. Hannah is one of my best pal since a year ago.

Hannah: I’m Hannah from Germany. As I love to draw and write, I also really love to get to know more about the world and their people – so I enjoy snail mail and travelling a lot. Last thing I wanted to make real for more than a few weeks: After graduating High School I will do volunteer service in Indonesia for about 3 months, and afterwards travelling myself trough the country and visiting all the Indonesian friends I found on, especially Eriza :)

IMG_3457What language are you learning right now?

Eriza: Beside my native language Indonesian and also Javanese, I learn English intensively. I can say I’m pretty good at it. And I learn Germany for now. I want to re-learn my Japanese and I also want to learn French, and Russian. But I don’t know if I can manage the time.

Hannah: Expect my Native language German I speak also English more or less fluently and I learn Indonesian, but still I am pretty bad at it. I hope that soon, as I’m staying here, I can speak Indonesian.

Later I’d like to learn also Italian and Spanish, but I dont know yet if I really have time for it.

Where do you most want to travel?

Eriza: honestly, I’ve never been abroad. But I always want to visit Australia and Germany. They are my dream country to visit. But I love my country, I want to explore Indonesia too.

Hannah: Although I travelled already to 4 continents, I still have many places I want to visit, to many to count. But now I want to see more from Indonesia!

IMG_3437How did you meet on Interpals?

Eriza: First when I found hannah on interpals, I saw her learning Indonesian and she likes snail mailing. So that’s when we started to talk so much. Whether in the letters or even only chatting. I feel like we’re a best friend even we are far away xD

Hannah: Frankly I don’t know anymore for sure, but I think it was, that we both like snail mail, so we started to exchange letters! And also kept on chatting a lot :)

How and when did you meet in person?

Hannah: With the organisation AFS I’m doing a volunteer service in Malang, a city only 2 hours away from Erizas home! And then also her neighbourhood made a trip to Selecta, some tourist thing close to Malang, where I could go ok the same day! So we spent the day together in a beautiful place and took a lot of photos and just enjoyed being together in real! :D

IMG_3429What are some of your favorite memories together?

Eriza: I don’t know, but I guess spending that day was so cool! It was a cool experience to meet your pal in real life! I enjoyed taking lots of picture, just going around with my family too. And also eat some foods, I remembered hannah tried the sweet potatoes xD. And I like when hannah showed me and told me about her friends and her family in Germany. I felt like we’ve been friends so long ^^

Hannah: eeeh.. i dont know what to write at that question xD Maybe doing Flying Fox together? :D Or just I dont know haha xD A great thing is, that’ll meet again in November or December :) )

What advice do you have for other Interpals members who want to meet friends?

Eriza: If you have the chance to go abroad, why don’t you visit your friends in their country? Maybe that’ll help you to know them well, and they’ll take you around and tell many things to you. And be brave with everything which is possibly happen! :D

Hannah: If you have the chance to go abroad, why not in a country where you already have friends? Why don’t you take the chance to go abroad? ;) And be brave!


Do YOU have a friendship story you’d like to see on our blog? Don’t hesitate to contact us!

Tagged with: , , , , , , , ,
Posted in Countries and Cultures, Friendship Stories

Laughing Together: Steven and Chan

Recently, we received a story from Steven in London, England. He and his friend Chan met when Chan and his girlfriend, Hyeji, came to London for a summer session. What we love most about this story is their connection through humor and laughter. Keep reading to learn more about this amazing friendship!

unnamedTell us a little bit about each of you.

Steven: My name is Steven and I live in London, England. I am a student and I major in Christian Theology. I guess the most interesting fact about me is I am training to be an Anglican Priest within the Church of England. My hobbies are watching movies, socialising with my mates on Facebook and interpals, I like to sometimes watch football (I support Arsenal FC), I love to read and I also play games in my spare time.

Chan: Hello I’m Chan from South Korea. I’m studying chemical engineering and going to graduate next Feb. Though I’m engineering student, I’m interested in learning foreign languages. I’m studying English, French and German. That’s why I’m really interested in learning and feeling many kinds of cultures in the world. My hobby is traveling the world and making new friends. Until now, I usually travel many famous places in Korea and other countries during vacations! Traveling many countries, I’m finding a country where I will spend my old age. Until now, the candidates are London in England and Switzerland.

unnamed-10Are you learning any languages right now?

Steven: I am not learning any languages for I have Special Educational needs but I am thinking about learning how to write in other languages to overcome my learning barriers. I only speak English.

Chan: Yes I’m learning English and French. My English is intermediate level and French is just beginner.

What led to your becoming friends on Interpals?

Steven: I was the first to send Chan a message on Interpals in April 2014. I was in search for a Korean person so that I could learn more about their country e.g. Culture and Political situation. I liked Chan’s profile because it was quite interesting and it wasn’t complicated to understand. He stated on his profile that he wanted to improve his English so I thought I would offer to lend him a hand. What drew us together was that Chan was coming to visit London with his girlfriend Hyeji. Chan was going to travel Europe and the UK was his first stop because he was going to do a 3 week course. At first I doubted that we would meet because I was and still unemployed so I had to do a lot of Job hunting. When we skyped for the first time it was our sense of humour that drew us more closely together. I don’t consider myself a funny person but a lot of people on Interpals find me quite funny and Chan has got to be my biggest fan. Chan is a very respectful person and he always listens, no matter what we talk about, weather it be religion or matters in the world Chan listens and takes everything in to consideration. The biggest thing I admire about Chan is that he has a Big Warm Heart for people, those he loves and those he comes into contact with.

Chan: A few days after I started Interpals, Steven sent me a message. I was really thanks to his message because I was happy someone got interested in me. We started to share our cultures, experiments and so on. Since then we became friends.

unnamed-8How and when did you meet in person?

Steven: Chan, Hyeji and I fianlly met on the first week of July 2014. They arrived in Regents Park, London and I went to visit them on their second day. I went to Regents park by train and I met them at the station.

Chan: I applied for an international summer session program of Westminster University in London where Steven lives. Fortunately, it was not hard to pass it so we can meet in person in London!

What are your favorite things about your friendship?

Steven: I think the best thing about our friendship is story-telling and us learning from each other. I tell Chan stories from my old mate John who is the Chrch Warden of our Parish Church of St Catherines, Neasden. I also tell Chan things that happens to me in my life and funny things I experience on Interpals. Chan always laughs and tells me I am funny. I took Chan & Hyjie to the Museum of London and educated them a bit about London’s history which they really enjoyed. Afterwards I took them to see my Church, St Catherine’s were they met John and my other mate Robin. I showed them around the church and I demonstrated a typical Sunday service. Chan engaged with long conversation with John. John to is quite a keen person and like to ask lots of questions, so this experience was quite exciting for John too.  I also took them to my Local Park which is big huge open space were you can get a good view of London and Wembley. We talked about our High School lives and all the naughty things we did. We took some really good photos and a someone’s dog decided to join us at one point (you will see in the photos above). My unnamed-7favourite part of Chan & Hyeji’s visit was when we went out to and evening dinner and Bowling. This was the funniest of part. I took them to a restaurant called “Nandos” which is quite popular in Britain. Chan ordered this quite a large meal and Hyeji ordered about half the size of Chan’s meal. I had never seen anything like, they ate everything on the plate and all the chicken bones were polished. They said they really enjoyed it and I was so shocked I burst with laughter.

Chan: We had many experiences in London. Two things I think special are London Museum and Neasden. Because I like history, London Museum was really interesting. Especially, he explained easily each events to us when we moved and moved to other exhibits in the museum. And I remember clearly the time we spent in a park in Neasden. He bought chicken and chips for us and we went to the park and talked a lot. I had a pleasant time with Steven even though I was not good at speaking English. He listened closely to my funny episodes and told us his. We were unaware of the passage of time.

unnamed-6How has your friendship changed after meeting?

Steven: Our friendship was special when we met and still remains very special to both of us. I think even though we haven’t known each other for very long its like we know each other inside-out. We would gladly do anything for each other.

Chan: It has rigidified much more than before we met. He was a kind of penpals who I met online but now it is certain that he is one of my real friends. Of course He would be one of my friends and we could be closer even if I couldn’t meet him in London, but it is fact that we became much closer when we met and shared our experiences and cultures in London. We keep contacting and becoming closer and closer. I’m sure I will visit London again to see him!

unnamed-9What advice do you have for others who want to meet friends through Interpals?

Steven: The best advice I can give to other Interpallers who want to meet their friends is Go For It and Believe you will meet. Look how at first I doubted I would meet Chan and even though it was only by chance we met because Chan was coming here to the UK it still happened because it was our union that pushed us to make our meeting a reality. When friends meet, it is special and fruitful friendships becomes like Family. If Chan did not come here, I would eventually gone to visit him in Korea because I wanted to meet him so badly. Guys, never give up and always believe you will meet those great and amazing friends you have. You can make it happen even if it takes you years to save up the money, your meeting is in your hands and trust me it will be Worth the wait.

Chan: Of course, there are many kind and nice people on Interpals but you might meet bad and rude guys easily. You have to be able to distinguish if he or she is there to make friends or other reasons. If you can do that, you will interact with a lot of interesting people from the whole world.

Do YOU have an Interpals friendship story? Write to us – we’d love to hear from you!

Tagged with: , , , ,
Posted in Friendship Stories

Our Dreams Came True: Ania and Manon

10654129_750890464976536_1430052172_n“Friendship is born at that moment when one [person] says to another: ‘What! You too? I thought that no one but myself…’ ”

We think this quote from C.S. Lewis well describes many of the friendship stories we hear week after week from Interpals members. Many friendships begin when one person notices something that they have in common with another, and contact them based on their shared interests.

We love to hear stories whether or not friends meet in person and we realize how lucky they are if they do. This week, Ania and Manon sent us their incredible story of friendship and language exchange (between Dutch and Russian), first through meeting via Interpals and then in person in Amsterdam.

Ania: We started to talk on 22 Sep 2013 when Manon first messaged me offering help with my Dutch and wondering whether I’d ever tried stroopwafels. It was amazing how easily and well we got along. We were discussing everything from boys to school, from make-ups to languages. Manon was teaching me Dutch on Skype, we were spending so much time talking to each other and I totally love it! We even made up new nicknames: I was ANLY (Anja+silly) and she was RINON or RINI (right+Manon).

So, in May we both turned 18, in June we graduated and in August I came to the Netherlands!!

The time we spent together was so awesome, we did a lot of ‘Dutch’ things: we sat on the canals, rode bikes (we even fell off together and now have same bruises on our left knees) and ate stroopwafels (so, yes, now I can say I’ve eaten them!). Our dreams came true, we met and went out! We’re sure we’ll be meeting over and over again even when we’re much older. Now it’s my turn to teach her Russian ;)

Manon is gorgeous and I already miss her so much!

Ik hou van jou, mijn vriendin  Я люблю тебя, моя подруга! <3

Thank you, Interpals, for helping me find such a friend!


Manon: Indeed I messaged Ania firstly, after I read her profile it was basically impossible not to offer my help since she confessed her true love for the Netherlands, everything Dutch and her desire to learn Dutch quite dramatically! ;)

We started chatting more and more often and when we skyped for the first time, it felt like we had been friends for ages already. Ania supported me a lot during my final exams and other life changing events and we were indeed able to talk about everything that was on our mind.

10656347_750890454976537_2058616865_nNow we wanted to meet in person sooo badly and we made plans of all the stuff we wanted to experience together in either Russia and the Netherlands! So after we graduated Ania told me she actually was able to come and visit ‘me’ in the wonderful country she adores so much.

Even when I was waiting for her and her friend at the arrival hall at the airport I couldn’t believe we were actually about to experience adventures together! From the moment we met it felt like true friendship and there has not been one moment of awkwardness! I had an amazing week and am so so so looking forward to our next series of adventures and silly experiences!!

Ania really is an amazing person and such a wonderful and loving friend!! I am really stunned that interpals granted the opportunity of meeting her and discovering the amazing possibilities of international friendship!

Do YOU have friendship and/or language exchange story you’d like to share with us? Write to us at [email protected]!

Tagged with: , , , , , , , , , , ,
Posted in Friendship Stories

Like Brothers: Pedro Paulo, Rafal, and Houmem

This week, we spoke to Pedro Paulo F. from Brazil. When he took an exchange trip to Lublin, Poland, he looked for Lublin residents through Interpals so that he would know somebody when he arrived. When he met Rafal, they became friends immediately. Read Pedro Paulo’s story below!


The three friends in Lublin, Poland

Why did you go abroad?

Pedro Paulo: I was going to exchange in Poland for 6 weeks in a voluntary program by AIESEC. I worked in a project called “Enter Your Future” which consists leading workshops in high schools with 14 volunteers from different nationalities. Then I went on Interpals to look up for friends in Lublin, Poland.

Why did you contact Rafal specifically?

I found Rafal at random… I told him I would go to Poland, to his city and I was afraid I could be alone, without friends out there. He said to come and he would help me. When I arrived, there was a guy from Tunisia (his name is Houmem) and we became friends because he was my roommate in the dormitory.

unnamed-1What was it like to meet in person?

I met Rafal in a mall in Lublin, then we were three inseparable friends. We used to hang out together in the city and there was a moment when everybody from the group in the project went to Krakow! Rafal also joined us, it was amazing!

What are your thoughts on traveling abroad after your experience?

I think that if you are going to travel abroad, especially if you are alone, look up for friends on interpals, maybe you’ll be lucky and you’ll find good friends in this country. This is what I did, and from now on I’ll always do that.

What do you love about Interpals?

Interpals is a great tool for who want to look for friends abroad. Thanks to Interpals I found Rafal and he means a lot to me now, he’s like my brother!

Tagged with: , , , , ,
Posted in Friendship Stories

Hometowns, Dream Towns, and Destinations 2 [PHOTO BLOG]

Welcome to the second round of our Hometowns, Dream Towns, and Destinations series! This time, prepare yourself for some stunning night shots, aerial views, and ruins from locations such as Marrakech, Morocco, and Leicestershire, UK. Don’t forget to send us photos of YOUR hometowns and dream destinations!

Budapest, Hungary


Hungarian Parliament Building


Széchenyi Chain Bridge


Hungarian Parliament Building

Elina L. says:

“Hi:) The first thing I want to say is thank you. I found interesting people for friendship. It’s great experience. I want to show you some photos of night Budapest:) I make it in summer 2013 when we traveled to Europe.

It was amazing sight.

Most of all I liked very beautiful architecture. Especially at night when all the buildings shine :)

Rishikesh, India


Udai D. says:

“I would like to share my hometown Rishikesh, India which has been a magnet for spiritual seekers. Today its known as the ‘Yoga Capital of the World’, with varied ashrams and all kinds of yoga and meditation classes. Most of this action is north of the main town, where the exquisite setting on the fast-flowing Ganges river, surrounded by forested hills, is conducive to meditation and mind expansion.

But Rishikesh is not all spirituality and contorted limbs, it’s now a popular white-water rafting centre, backpacker hang-out, and gateway to treks in the Himalaya :)

Marrakech, Morocco



Jamaa El Fna


Bader C. says:

“My name is Bader from Morocco , i live in Marrakech , its my best City for me , i want to send you some pictures from Marrakech and hope to share it

I loved a lot things about Marrakech , i wil try to say the important , like Jamaa EL fna it’s a place where old meets with the new, the traditional and the modern, the rich and the poor, a place that he is a mixture of different cultures in Morocco, there is also a magnificent palace built by Sultan Ahmed Mansour Al-Saadi Golden (1603-1578), and the Bahia Palace, which dates back to the era of the upper Minister Ahmed Ben Moussa on the reign of Sultan Abdul Aziz.”

Fethiye, Turkey


Fethiye, Turkey


Durmuş G. says:

“Hello, I am from Fethiye and i love to live in Fethiye. Fethiye has a Mediterranean climate consisting of very hot, long and dry summers with an average of 34°C in the daytime, winters are cool and rainy with a daytime average of 16°C. Ölüdeniz is one of well-know beaches.

Ölüdeniz (literally Dead Sea, due to its calm waters even during storms; official translation name Blue Lagoon) is a small village and beach resort in the Fethiye district of Muğla. Ölüdeniz is also famous for its paragliding opportunities. It is regarded as one of the best places in the world to paraglide due to its unique panoramic views, and Mount Babadağ’s exceptional height.

Greetings From Fethiye.”

Leicestershire, UK


Zanny T. says:

“I love living in Leicestershire, is the history that we have from King Richard 3rd to, Abbey park pumping station. Some of the things w have are all but ruins because of fighting, but they date back from when Romans ruled England and they stayed in Leicester. Also we have more recent famous people who people who now, for example, Aston Merrygold is from Leicester, and also Sam barley who just won X factor. Also Gok Wan and Colin Wilson.”

What do you love about YOUR hometown? Which place in the world is at the top of your dream list? Write to us – we’d love to hear about your favorite places in the world!

Tagged with: , , , , , , , , , , ,
Posted in Countries and Cultures

Meeting People on Interpals: Tips, Advice, and 22 Unusual Questions

stock-footage-young-student-friends-with-computer-tablet-chat-together-outdoors-on-campusIt isn’t always easy to establish a friendship on Interpals. The chances that you’ll meet in person vary among different situations, and busy lives can get in the way of staying in contact. Also, there are a lot of people on Interpals, which can be overwhelming! Today, we have a few tips, dos and don’ts, and thoughts for meeting people on Interpals and getting a conversation going. Scroll to the bottom for a list of 22 unusual questions to get to know new people.

Don’t be generic. When you first write to someone, don’t just say, “what’s up?” or “hi!” They probably receive similar messages every day. Also, don’t add anyone as a friend if you haven’t written to them (or if you haven’t heard back). Be sure that they’re okay with being friends before adding them.

300x208-hand-on-keyboard-typingDo read their profile. Before writing to anyone you’re interested in befriending, be sure to read his or her profile. If you don’t seem to have common interests, you might want to consider resuming your search. Try starting a conversation by mentioning what jumped out to you on their profile. More often than not, they will appreciate that you took the time to read their profile before writing to them.

Don’t troll. Although the Internet grants us with a degree of anonymity, this isn’t an invitation to troll, harass, or otherwise bother your fellow Interpals members. Our forums are a place to discuss your thoughts and opinions, but always avoid insulting or putting others down. You will not make friends if you are tactless or hurtful. To protect yourself, please report or block any users who bother you.

Screen Shot 2014-07-11 at 8.00.33 AMDo use our features. Our search, forums, and language exchange pages are a few features that can help you find friends.

- On our forums, you can find topics ranging from Movies & Entertainment and Food & Drink to languages and language learning.

- If you’re looking for a language exchange partner, see our “language exchange” feature to find out who’s speaking your target language. Don’t be shy to ask somebody if they’d be willing to help you practice!

- If you’re looking for friends with common interests, or who live in certain parts of the world, you can customize the results you find through our search engine. Just type your interest (such as “tennis”) or a specific language into the “keyword” box.

Don’t take it personally if they don’t respond. It can be frustrating when people don’t write back, but try not to take it personally. There are a number of reasons why they not might respond:

- They may be out of town, busy with work or school, or otherwise unable to respond at the moment. Even if they are able to check their inbox, they may not always have time to respond.

- They may feel overwhelmed by the number of messages they receive. If they have already reached their limit of penpals they’d like to talk to at the same time, you may not hear from them.

After you send a message, it’s a good idea to move on and keep looking for friends. Try not to dwell on why they didn’t write back.

Chatting-online-300x199Do keep trying! Don’t give up just because you didn’t hear back from somebody. However, if you constantly open Interpals to find an empty inbox, you can try one or two of these tips:

- Try changing your search preferences. Broaden your search options to look for friends of both genders in countries you know very little about. Again, be sure to read their profile before you write to anyone you’d like to befriend.

- Search for newer members. Newer members are not likely to have many friends and more likely to be looking for penpals, friends, and language exchange partners. If they’re new, send them a welcome message – they’re bound to appreciate it!

- Remember that every friendship is different. Try not to compare your friendship to that of others. Instead, do what works best for you and your friend.

- Keep things interesting. Discuss new topics, send each other postcards (if you feel comfortable sharing your snail mail address), and ask new questions to keep things going.

Keep reading for some questions ideas to keep your conversation fresh!

Fun questions to get to know your friends:

1. Where have you traveled before? Where do you most want to go in the world?

2. What is one unusual fact about you?

3. What do you do in your spare time?

4. Do you have any pets? What are their names?

5. When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

6. What’s your dream job?

7. What kind of transportation do you use to get around town?

8. Do you like where you live? Have you always lived there?

9. What are some of your hobbies?

10. Which sports do you like to play or watch, if any?

11. What is something that you always carry with you when you leave the house?

12. What’s your favorite dessert?

13. Who is the most important person in your life?

14. How do you cheer yourself up when you’re feeling down?

15. What are some assumptions that people often make when they first meet or talk to you? Do these assumptions bother you?

16. Where are your parents’ families from? Have you ever been there?

17. What are you most afraid of? Why?

18. What do you do when you’re bored?

19. Which languages do you speak? Which do you most want to learn?

20. What is your favorite word? Least favorite word?

21. Do you blog? If you do, what about? If not, what do you think you would blog about?

22. Do you prefer to read paperbacks or read books on electronic devices?

Tagged with: , , , , ,
Posted in Tips & Tricks

Noo, Angela, and Sunshine: A Canadian Adventure

This week on the blog, we talked to Noo S. from the UK, who recently took a trip to Canada to visit two friends, Angela and Sunshine, both of whom she met through Interpals.

Tell us about yourself.

Noo: I’m a Rockabilly gal who loves pretty much all things from the 1940s & 1950s. I’m a big snail mail fan. I love watching movies and making fascinators and hair flowers. I live on a small Island (26 miles across) at the bottom of England called The Isle of Wight.

How and when did you meet Angela and Sunshine on Interpals?

I met Angela and Sunshine around the same time about 5 years ago on Interpals. We all had some fairly similar interests and I just clicked with both of them. I remember Sunshine’s profile had lots of awesome gifs on it and she just seemed like a lot of fun.


Noo meets Angela in Vancouver

How and when did you meet in person?

I met Angela in Vancouver when I decided to have a Canadian adventure. Angela met me from the airport with her son & husband, it was a lovely surprise as I wasn’t expecting her to meet me there. I stayed in Vancouver for a week before getting the train to Edmonton where Sunshine met me at the train station.

Tell us about the experience of meeting.

It was surreal to see Angela at the airport. She had previously said that she couldn’t meet me at the Airport, so I went to the information desk to find out where to get the Sky train from. I looked up and saw this woman waving at me & it was Angela! We had so much fun in Vancouver. I had my first proper Ice Hockey experience. I have watched Ice Hockey before, but nothing compares to the Canadian experience! We also went to the Vancouver Aquarium where we got drenched by a Beluga whale, touched Starfish & a Sea Cucumber which was kind of gross! We also made it across the Capilano suspension bridge and the cliff walk, which was quite an achievement!

Sunshine met me from the train station, which was so lovely of her and her partner Cory to wait for me as the train was running 2 hours late! I arrived in Edmonton at 1am after 28 hours on the train. It was actually Sunshine’s Birthday on the Sunday so we went to a Ska show at a place called The Pawn shop. Now I’ve been to some ska shows in my time, but never have I seen people skankin’ as hard as those Edmontonians. Man, it was so much fun!

Noo and Sunshine get matching tattoos

Noo and Sunshine get matching tattoos

I had the best sweet potato fries of my life in Dadeos in Edmonton- they would totally feature in my final meal! We also got matching Tattoos, so Sunshine and I will forever be linked through Ink on our arms and ink on the pages of our letters.

Noo and Sunshine show off their matching tattoos

Noo and Sunshine show off their matching tattoos

What are your favorite things about your friendships with Angela and Sunshine?

Angela is quieter than I had realised, but she’s very funny and found me pretty hysterical at times ;) she’s very kind and thoughtful.

Sunshine is my best friend in the entire world. This gal has inspired me in so many ways, and I love her dearly. She never judges people, which is incredibly rare nowadays. I know, even though we may be a few time zones apart that she is always there if I need her.

What advice do you have for Interpals members looking for friends?

Make sure that you are true friends, because there is always that chance that you might not get along in person. I was very lucky because there was no awkwardness at all with either of my pals.

Anything else?

I would say to anyone, if you can, meet your pals, because it has been the best experience. Something that will always be dear to me. I fully intend on visiting them again!

Have YOU met any good friends through Interpals? We’d love to hear your stories! Send us an email at blog(at)interpals(dot)net.

Tagged with: , , , , , , , ,
Posted in Friendship Stories

Country Profile: Nicaragua

Nicaragua 5

Photo from Luis

Nicaragua is a country in Central America that is sandwiched between Honduras and Costa Rica. This week, we talked to Luis and Ann, two residents of Managua, Nicaragua, to find out what they love about their beautiful country.

What is Managua known for and what do you like about it?

Luis: Managua is the capital city of Nicaragua and it is famous because it is located next to Lake Xolotlan the second biggest in the country. What I like about Managua is that even though it is a city of 2 million people, living there is not as stressing as in other big cities in the world.

Ann: Well Managua is the capital, so is the most important city, and almost all people want live here. There are much trade and movements, so there are a lot of people. Managua doesn’t have big buildings like capitals of other countries, but there are important buildings here.

Managua City, Tiscapa Lagoon - Photo from Ann

Managua City, Tiscapa Lagoon – Photo from Ann

Lake Managua - Photo from Ann

Lake Managua – Photo from Ann

What is Nicaragua famous for?

Luis: Nicaragua is famous because of its many tourist attractions and natural resources. Some of its natural resources are still virgins, which mean they have not been explored yet. Nicaragua is also known as the land of “lakes and volcanoes”. Right now Nicaragua possesses 19 volcanoes and two of the biggest lake in the Central American region.

Ann: Nicaragua is famous due the nature. Nicaragua is named “Land of lakes and volcanoes” we have even in the capital natural places. We have many kinds of landscapes and environments. Nicaragua has coast in the 2 oceans and in a lake there are sharks of sweet water. Nicaragua is famous for the foreigner for beaches and historical places.

Photo from Luis

Photo from Luis

Masachapa Beach - Photo from Ann

Masachapa Beach – Photo from Ann

What do you love most about living in Nicaragua?

Luis: What I like the most about Nicaragua is that it is a country for anyone.  Since I was little I always saw how many tourists from around the world decided to stay and live in Nicaragua for a while. Nicaragua has varieties of weather which means it’s something people can’t complain about. I’ve also witnessed how people like to stay in Nicaragua because there is always something new to do every day.  People can either participate in International surfing contest organized very often, or become more extreme and go sand surfing to “Cerro Negro”. And the best about living in Nicaragua is meeting the people there. People in Nicaragua are really friendly.

Ann: I love almost all? haha well I love nature, also here people is friendly and warm hearted.

What makes Nicaragua really interesting?

Ann: I think Nicaragua is interesting due the people and environment, beach, nature, tradition and history. We have 2 important and historical cities, Leon and Granada, but there are also many many awesome cities. Each cities of my country have a special church and central park, so usually people is concentrated there, also each city have an special religious festivity, can last 1 day or months (oh yeah long party haha)  depend of the city, this festivities are really interesting.

Leon City, Traditional Festivity. Photo from Ann

Leon City, Traditional Festivity. Photo from Ann

Luis: If religious, 58% of the population in Nicaragua is catholic, which means that Easter is the best time to visit. We also have carnivals and beauty contests during January and February. In October around Halloween in Nicaragua we celebrate Los Agüizotes. This celebration is a parade where people wear costumes of some of the most popular horror character in Nicaragua legends. It is celebrated in the region of Masaya the last Friday in the month of October.

What should travelers do or see in Nicaragua?

Luis: Lake Cocibolca: It is the second biggest lake in Latin American. Despite being a fresh water lake, you can find sawfish and sharks.

Ometepe Island: Ometepe Island is an island located in the center of Lake Cocibolca. During the last 5 years it has become Nicaragua principal tourist attraction since it is the only island in the world with 2 volcanoes, one of them being still active.

San Juan del Sur: it is Nicaragua finest beach. It is located in the southern region of the country

Leon and Granada: Leon and Granada are the two oldest cities in Nicaragua. They were both founded in 1524 (Being America that’s considered really old) by Francisco Hernandez de Cordoba.

Leon City, Cathedral View - Photo from Ann

Leon City, Cathedral View – Photo from Ann

BOSAWAS Biosphere Reserve: it is the third largest biosphere reserve in the world and the second one in America after the amazon in Brazil.

Nicaragua Volcanic chain: in total Nicaragua has 19 volcanoes with at least 13 of the still active.

Granada City - Photo from Ann

Granada City – Photo from Ann

Ann: I think travelers should visit the historical cities like Leon and Granada, also Ometepe island and all natural places!! we have a lot of beaches! and mountains so depend of things that people like. In Managua, there is “the historic center” is where Managua started.  San Juan del sur is one of important beaches, and Ometepe Island is one of important island too, this last one is patrimony of humanity due it is an old island and is rich of nature and history. In almost all cities there is nightclubs and casinos, especially in Managua, also in Managua there is one of the important theaters of Latin America “Ruben Dario Theater”.

Photo from Luis

Photo from Luis

When should travelers visit Nicaragua?

Luis: Tourist normally arrive to Nicaragua for spring break, but I would suggest people to go during summer (may, June or July) since during spring break tourist attractions are crowded with people and the experience will not be the same. During the summer less people will be in the country and prices will go down which means it would benefit tourists.

What are your least favorite things about living in Nicaragua?

Luis: As a person born and raised in this country I don’t find anything that wouldn’t call my attention.

Ann: what I don’t like of my country… ? well some parts of Nicaragua are kinda dangerous (thief) specially in Managua, so be carefull. But in general Nicaragua is a good place to live.

Can you share some unusual facts about Nicaragua?

Nagarota City, church - Photo from Ann

Nagarota City, church – Photo from Ann

Luis: Nicaragua had the first elected woman president of any Central America country. She served from 1991 1997. Nicaragua is the birthplace of Ruben Dario one of the 20th century s most notable poets. Nicaragua s baseball team took 4th in the 1996 Olympics held in Atlanta.

Ann: Nicaraguan people can be too much friendly and treat you as your family, also we laugh much. A uncomfortable or funny fact (to ladies) when you are walking in the street always guys will flirt you! haha

Like 2 years ago Nicaragua started to do rural tourism, is travel in a rural community and have experience like how people live in this communities. I did this kind of tourism and I can say, it is interesting, just “nature and you” really relaxing.

Photo from Ann

Photo from Ann

Anything else?

Ann: I hope you can visit my country soon, and discover by yourself ;)

Are YOU from Nicaragua or have you ever visited? If you have anything to add, please let us know in the comments section below!

Tagged with: , , , , , ,
Posted in Countries and Cultures

Hometowns, Dream Towns, and Destinations (PHOTO BLOG)

If you follow our Facebook page, you may have sent us a photo of YOUR hometown/travel destination or seen photos of others around the world. This week on the blog, we’d like to start sharing the blurbs and photos you’ve sent. Get ready for some wanderlust (or nostalgia, if you’ve visited these places)!


Singapore is an island country that lies just above the equator on the southern end of the Malay peninsula.

“These are some of the most popular landmarks of Singapore now. Marina Bay Sands, Gardens by the Bay and the Singapore Flyer. The city lights provide a beautiful scene for photos!”

-Harvey G.


Singapore at night


Singapore at night

Fes, Morocco

Fes is one of the largest urban hubs in Morocco. It is the oldest of Morocco’s imperial cities and known for its beautiful streets and cultural vibrancy.

“Hey i am Nihline from Morocco :) i really enjoy interpals as i found great friends all over the world who became good friends of mine :)  i went on a trip this weekend in my country and i would like to share with you the beauty of ” Fes ” an anciant city of Morocco..known by it’s roof wooden craft of houses and its wonderful architecture and culture. An interpaller from Morocco” – Nihline I.


Fes, Morocco

Nihline fav 2

Fes, Morocco


Fes, Morocco

Vlissingen, The Netherlands

Vlissingen is located on the southwestern region of the Netherlands. It is known for its beaches and wharfs.

“I have a picture of my hometown Vlissingen its in the Netherlands. As you can see its a picture of the beach I love to go swimming or just making pictures. Vlissingen is not really my hometown, my hometown is Middelburg it’s very near to Vlissingen. I send you some more pictures of my real hometown. Greeting from the Netherlands.” – Jessica M.


Vlissingen, Netherlands

Vlissingen 2

Vlissingen 1

Middelburg, Netherlands

Kalmar, Sweden

Kalmar is located in the southeast of Sweden. It lies beside the Baltic Sea.

“This is Kalmar castle from Kalmar where I live! I see it every day when I walk to classes, and it’s beautiful! It’s about 700years old, and a great reminder and window to the past! (Kalmar is a city on the east coast if Sweden). The most important must be that the Kalmar union was founded there by queen Margaret I (or as we say in Sweden Drottning Margareta) in 1397,a union between Sweden Denmark and Norway, it lasted until 1523 :) .” -Agnes O.


Kalmar Castle, Kalmar, Sweden


Kalmar Castle, Sweden

Tampa, USA

Tampa lies on the west coast of Florida, a southeastern US state. Tampa, like many other cities in Florida, is known for its beaches and warm weather.

“This is home in Tampa, Florida, United States.I always see pictures of other cities around the world and they are so pretty. when I leave my home and come back a short period of time later I always see the skyline and say I am home. This is where I belong. It is a combination of family, friends and community. I can not put in words why I love this place. Nice people, good food, The gulf of mexico and the year round warm weather. It is my home and it is part of me and I am a part of it. No more to be said.” -Kenneth B.


Tampa, Florida, USA


Tampa, Florida, USA

Want to share something about YOUR hometown? Contact us through our Facebook page or write to us at [email protected]

Tagged with: , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,
Posted in Countries and Cultures